Now there you go again—landing in the same type of job.
You thought a change of venue and a few extra dollars would make you happier, but it hasn't. You're doing many of the same things you were doing before, so basically, all you've done is move parallel—not upward.
Aren't you tired of going in circles?
You weren't happy in the last two positions, so what makes you think this new one will be different?
Be honest with yourself.
It's not really the change in location you're looking for, is it?
You've been wanting to spread your wings—to go higher, farther, and perhaps even launch your own business. But fear has kept you so grounded that you won't take the chance.
Meanwhile, you're miserable and disgusted with the daily grind, yet you keep pressing forward, hoping something will magically change.
But how can you expect change if you're not willing to be the one to create it?
There's a famous saying often attributed to Albert Einstein:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
So, are you insane?
No.
But you are going in circles.
What opportunities have you passed up because you were afraid to make a move?
How many times have you talked yourself out of taking a chance?
How long are you going to keep planning your dream without actually launching it?
At some point, you've got to stop stalling and launch out into the deep.
Is it time to make that move?
Ask yourself:
Do you have the skills?
The experience?
The education?
The training?
The ingenuity?
The manageability?
The tenacity?
The determination?
And, most importantly, the motivation?
Then what are you waiting for?
You don't need another lap around the same track.
It's time to change direction.
My Best to You,
Amy
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What if?
It’s a question we often ask ourselves when we’re trying to imagine what might happen in the future—or wondering what might have happened in the past if we had made a different choice.
What if I had taken that job?
What if I had applied for that promotion?
SO MANY WHAT IFS.
But here’s the thing: some of the things we went through were never meant to be avoided. Some trials, struggles, disappointments, and life lessons were necessary parts of the journey. They helped shape us into the people we are today.
There’s no time machine that can take us back and allow us to revisit yesterday, change a decision, or rewrite a chapter of our lives.
What happened has happened.
And while your past may have helped shape you, it doesn’t have to determine what happens next.
What you’ve been through—and where you are now—can help you decide what you will do with the rest of your time on this earth.
So choose wisely.
I believe that when we put our trust in God, He has a way of working things together—even when we can’t see how the pieces fit. Sometimes what we thought was a wrong turn becomes part of the road that leads us exactly where we need to be.
So instead of spending all your time asking:
“What if I had done things differently?”
Maybe there’s another question worth asking...
Now THAT is a “What If” worth exploring.
My Best To You Always,
Amy


We all know the fairy tale “Little Red Riding Hood.” There’s a few versions to this story, but basically she was seen as an obedient little girl who was told by her mother to take goodies to her sick grandmother. She walked through the woods alone (you’ve got me there...I wouldn't). The story never suggested she had any issues with going by herself, not even when she met the wolf on her way. It wasn't until she got to the house and began questioning the wolf who was pretending to be grandmother that things took a turn.
As far as the wolf was concerned he had no problem swallowing up grandmother whole and then moving on to his next victim, Little Red Riding Hood. I didn't write this story, okay?So, let’s take this to the Workplace:
The unspoken rule in the office was “stay in your lane”. This employee started questioning some decisions and brought it to the boss, thinking they would appreciate these suggestions. The first time they did it, they were brushed off by their superior, but the second time this boss showed his ‘wolf-like fangs’ and went straight for the jugular. He was known for devouring anyone who stood in his way or disagreed with him. It didn’t matter how ridiculous or illogical his instructions could be, you just followed and kept your mouth shut.
So, imagen the newbie’s shock when they were basically ‘swallowed whole’ right in front of everyone? He likes doing it that way, it commands control and gives him a sense of superiority.
♦How dare you question your boss. You're not supposed to evaluate any decision they make.
♦Must you be reminded your opinion and suggestions doesn't matter? You're supposed to listen and do your work without questioning anything.
You've just come face to face with ‘THE BIG BAD WOLF’.
Fact Check 1: There are some leaders/managers who are intimidated by subordinates, their skills, experience, intelligence, etc. Keep in mind intimidation can grow to jealousy, jealously often yields cruelty and insensitivity, no matter how wonderful you are at your job. These leaders feel threaten and their ego is bigger than the building they’re housed in. It’s hard for them to embrace anyone’s skills or expertise if it is a threat to their own. They’re too busy drowning in their own inadequacies. All they can see is that you might outshine them or possibly take their job. Let me be clear, I am not telling you to question everything your leader/manager does. However, you shouldn’t allow anyone to dilute your abilities, no matter how far up the ‘food chain’ they are. THE BIG BAD WOLF doesn't know all your potential and they don’t want to know.
Fact Check 2: You know who you are and what you’re capable of regardless of how you’re treated and being overlooked. Keep being that smart, ambitious, fearless ‘go-getter’. Sooner than later, you will get noticed and be appreciated, and you will be handsomely rewarded.
Unlike the creature you may face every day, you don’t have to pretend or deceive. **You know your stuff so allow your gifts and talents to SHINE through**. By the way, he didn’t have a happy ending, did he?
Until the next confession
Be Your Best Always
Amy
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